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That's when they find you the most desirable

Having a giant load of money and more flowing in also helps

Indeed, but surprisingly less than one might think. Not like women are sensible or logical.

@lord_nougat @Dagnar @GoyGirl It’s really a much more important consideration when looking for a spouse - regardless of what hopeless romantics such as myself ( ) think about that.

What is? Finances?? I've always been good with money. Frugal, still charitable, perfect credit at 20-21 getting first not-hand-me-down car, gave friends loans, lol...

So I suppose it was a tall order to find a guy I respected more than myself in that area. And I did. Eventually.

You've been married how long now?

0 years

Almost 11 yrs.

No wonder you got scooped up.

Deciding to give up on all that is how I found mine about three decades ago. For better or worse. In sickness and health. Et cetera and so forth.

I always wanted a mid .. 5-7 .. but relatively stable and wants a good cooperative life. I always missed those.

I got me a fancy one who is usually stable except for when she's not and can be somewhat uncooperative. While I might complain about that from time to time, it's bullshit and I know damned well I could never possibly find a better match and we deserve one another.

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Plenty of times I've seen a homely dude walking arm in arm with a hot chick and thought "What's this dude got that I don't have?"

Answer: a Mercedes S-class.

Married men often make more money, too... because women & kids is pricey.

How to make the man make less money: encourage his divorce. Ahhhh, wimminz 😩