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@GoyGirl Idk; I just got immediately more capable of commanding and attracting female attention - precisely after it didn’t matter anymore 🎉

That's when they find you the most desirable

Having a giant load of money and more flowing in also helps

Indeed, but surprisingly less than one might think. Not like women are sensible or logical.

@lord_nougat @Dagnar @GoyGirl It’s really a much more important consideration when looking for a spouse - regardless of what hopeless romantics such as myself ( ) think about that.

What is? Finances?? I've always been good with money. Frugal, still charitable, perfect credit at 20-21 getting first not-hand-me-down car, gave friends loans, lol...

So I suppose it was a tall order to find a guy I respected more than myself in that area. And I did. Eventually.

You've been married how long now?

0 years

Almost 11 yrs.

No wonder you got scooped up.

I didn't think men cared much about female financial acumen, lol, but not having $20k in student loans for liberal arts is probably a bonus...

Side note: I actually did have 10k in student loans when we met, but it gave me a certification in a trade... & I had a step-grandmother who also gave me 10k in stocks.

Handed them over for the debt so I could be home with baby. Fine trade 😊

@GoyGirl @Dagnar @lord_nougat @KingOfWhiteAmerica let me know when your husband is done paying off your student loans nancy

I paid them off with my stocks, which were Microsoft & got them as a minor, sat stagnant forever, even declined, split once... finally got back to original $10k gifted at, so sold.

They went up a lot not long after 😩

@GoyGirl @Dagnar @lord_nougat While it certainly isn’t the only significant consideration - it is a big one

Deciding to give up on all that is how I found mine about three decades ago. For better or worse. In sickness and health. Et cetera and so forth.

I always wanted a mid .. 5-7 .. but relatively stable and wants a good cooperative life. I always missed those.

I got me a fancy one who is usually stable except for when she's not and can be somewhat uncooperative. While I might complain about that from time to time, it's bullshit and I know damned well I could never possibly find a better match and we deserve one another.

Sounds perfect ☺️

💯

Plenty of times I've seen a homely dude walking arm in arm with a hot chick and thought "What's this dude got that I don't have?"

Answer: a Mercedes S-class.

Aw heck, just a CLK will do!

@lord_nougat @zeke @Dagnar @GoyGirl I considered choosing a wife based on whether or not a five-cyl Mercedes diesel came with; I thought better of it within a few hours, but still 😆

Oh man, the 300cd is another great one! My wife loves that car.

These days even Pookie and Ray Ray have one of those... financed for 84 months at 28% interest on the backs of 4 Baby Mamma's government benefits.

"Dat soun like a pretty gud deal Mr. White Man!"

Married men often make more money, too... because women & kids is pricey.

How to make the man make less money: encourage his divorce. Ahhhh, wimminz 😩

@GoyGirl @KingOfWhiteAmerica I have zero income and spend what i have on making my friends lives better, your thoughts?

Zero income?? Thought everyone said you were rich!

I did the semi-ascetic/anprim male thing for years before my husband, but would be lying if didn't say it made me too insecure to procreate.

I can be far from rich, but I had to know someone knew about the next meal, so I could raise my own kids - not daycare.