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Women see my wedding ring, but also that I'm a cripple. No one's trying to break up my marriage. Lol.

@GoyGirl thats just how the female mind works, you can prop up Gollum as the most attractive man ever, on TV, social media, etc. And you would have thousands of women fighting for him.

Guess guys should invest in a wedding ring to elevate their odds, make up a story later the wife died or something.

@GoyGirl I went from a solid seven to about an 8 - 9 overnight

You got better-looking as a married dude?? Lol, why's that?

@GoyGirl Idk; I just got immediately more capable of commanding and attracting female attention - precisely after it didn’t matter anymore 🎉

Married men often make more money, too... because women & kids is pricey.

How to make the man make less money: encourage his divorce. Ahhhh, wimminz 😩

That's when they find you the most desirable

Having a giant load of money and more flowing in also helps

Indeed, but surprisingly less than one might think. Not like women are sensible or logical.

@lord_nougat @Dagnar @GoyGirl It’s really a much more important consideration when looking for a spouse - regardless of what hopeless romantics such as myself ( ) think about that.

Deciding to give up on all that is how I found mine about three decades ago. For better or worse. In sickness and health. Et cetera and so forth.

💯

Plenty of times I've seen a homely dude walking arm in arm with a hot chick and thought "What's this dude got that I don't have?"

Answer: a Mercedes S-class.

I always wanted a mid .. 5-7 .. but relatively stable and wants a good cooperative life. I always missed those.

What is? Finances?? I've always been good with money. Frugal, still charitable, perfect credit at 20-21 getting first not-hand-me-down car, gave friends loans, lol...

So I suppose it was a tall order to find a guy I respected more than myself in that area. And I did. Eventually.

You've been married how long now?

Almost 11 yrs.

I got me a fancy one who is usually stable except for when she's not and can be somewhat uncooperative. While I might complain about that from time to time, it's bullshit and I know damned well I could never possibly find a better match and we deserve one another.

No wonder you got scooped up.

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@GoyGirl another example of why women historically had little to no power and or rights, you are not suited to wield it

When I was evil I used to pick up dumb whores by wearing a ring. When they figured out I wasn't married they'd get weirded out, clearly mad, clearly wanted to ask about the ring.

@GoyGirl I've experienced this first-hand. I always thought it was a certain type of woman who wants to test her attractiveness by luring married men to see if they can turn his head. Never thought they actually found them attractive. I guess it's wanting what they can't have + having demonstrable/innate value. Strange phenomenon.