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LADIES OF FEDI (all uhhhhh three of you (OH maybe some spinsterfriends?)): I have a VERY IMPORTANT QUESTION. TLDR: about hair


STORYTIME - I used to think I had straight hair because my mother has very straight hair and I always kept it as long as it would grow (never "cut," only trimmed). HOWEVER, in recent years I have cut it to the shortest it's ever been (which is still long for some people.... maybe bottom of my shoulderblades?) and I have BANGS again, and I have learned that I actually inherited my father's wavy hair. BECAUSE MY BANGS KEEP FLIPPING ALL OVER THE PLACE. THE OTHER DAY IT LOOKED LIKE A GIANT MUSTACHE ON MY HEAD But the rest of my hair is still long enough that it doesn't show the "wave"

SO

The question I pose to you: do I cut my hair more to see the wave? I LOVE long hair and I didn't even cut it to this (still "long" ish) length for... look I'm not telling you my age, you can guess but the point is I'm nervous and WHAT IF IT LOOKS HORRIBLE Maybe I should cut it in increments? I just want to see if it would look nice with the waaaave (and maybe make my bangs look not as silly) AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA Help me ladies, I never thought I had wavy hair and have no idea how to make it look even more rad (or at least not silly) on me

Thank you for reading my TED talk, pls send help

You didn't mention if it was thick or not I'm just going to assume it is.

I have thick wavy hair it's beautiful always has been. I'm a little older now but it still looks good even with gray mixed in with the dark. This is the haircut. Shoulder length with layers, side swept bangs, texturize the heck, with scissors don't let them use a razor, you got wonderful movement the waves turn into beautiful soft waves. Very feminine. The only thing I do is use a keratin shampoo and a keratin conditioner and then put a curl enhancer to get rid of the frizz and just let it dry. I only have to wash it like twice a week