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LADIES OF FEDI (all uhhhhh three of you (OH maybe some spinsterfriends?)): I have a VERY IMPORTANT QUESTION. TLDR: about hair


STORYTIME - I used to think I had straight hair because my mother has very straight hair and I always kept it as long as it would grow (never "cut," only trimmed). HOWEVER, in recent years I have cut it to the shortest it's ever been (which is still long for some people.... maybe bottom of my shoulderblades?) and I have BANGS again, and I have learned that I actually inherited my father's wavy hair. BECAUSE MY BANGS KEEP FLIPPING ALL OVER THE PLACE. THE OTHER DAY IT LOOKED LIKE A GIANT MUSTACHE ON MY HEAD But the rest of my hair is still long enough that it doesn't show the "wave"

SO

The question I pose to you: do I cut my hair more to see the wave? I LOVE long hair and I didn't even cut it to this (still "long" ish) length for... look I'm not telling you my age, you can guess but the point is I'm nervous and WHAT IF IT LOOKS HORRIBLE Maybe I should cut it in increments? I just want to see if it would look nice with the waaaave (and maybe make my bangs look not as silly) AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA Help me ladies, I never thought I had wavy hair and have no idea how to make it look even more rad (or at least not silly) on me

Thank you for reading my TED talk, pls send help

@scenesbycolleen if you find out, lmk. my slight wave didn’t start showing until after i buzzed all my hair off (lice)

for your bangs i suggest getting a round brush that heats up rather than a round brush and a hair dryer. doing that can be difficult and it’s very hard to do physically (it’s like rubbing your tummy and patting your head for me)

i’ve chosen to ignore the wave in my hair so i can’t tell you any tips on taking care of it other than brushing it out will give you a lions mane

and for cutting it, if you want ideas always make sure you look up “wavy” styles or whatever type your hair is such as A1 or whatever

good luck