how are you actually supposed to communicate to someone you like them without being blunt about it
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Lemme know too when you find out
@kernow be blunt (if you're me because I am too dumb for subtlety)
@benis_redux @pwm my real self is cold, silent and aloof
@benis_redux @kernow not me chief, I know what's in there and it ain't for public display.
@pwm @khayyam @benis_redux "this dime swayed into my office, hand on hip and looked me dead in the eye: I knew she was trouble"
@benis_redux @pwm on a long enough timeline everything becomes chinese
@benis_redux @kernow I'm so fucking decrepit it's not even funny 🥀
@benis_redux @pwm on a long enough timeline everything becomes chinese
@benis_redux @kernow @wertimer I'm like the Easter egg you missed, it's Augusta and I smell like death
Just be blunt about it honestly
@kernow you're not supposed to be blunt about it ???? 
@f0x apparently not??
@f0x Idk what the hell I'm doing with dating
@kernow i think thats stupid so im not following it
@kernow @benis_redux @pwm I let the girl talk her heart out to me when we're together. And then I pick at interesting things she says and they become a tangent and then it goes off into another... a loop of sorts. I actually enjoy this and I don't really care if she likes me or not. But it works out cause I spill in some romantic stuff and try to close the physical distance. If i'm lucky I get a kiss and a good sucky on the boobie (this is real and it happened)
@MK2boogaloo @f0x I'm beginning to change my mind about older women. they immediately pin you to a couch if they set their sights on you
@f0x how can I be polite but blunt about it
@kernow i don't think my advice on what to do will apply (lady charm makes this go differently, typically)
@MK2boogaloo @f0x being predated upon by someone you don't fancy is not fun
@kernow @MK2boogaloo he has no concept of "no", he's a monkey man.
@kernow the only reason to be subtle is if you can't take explicit rejection.
I am serious.
@kernow @f0x @MK2boogaloo neeed
@bajax that's true I can't handle an explicit rejection my heart is still in pieces from the first one
@f0x well how do you handle things then
works every time for me.
@kernow i have a pretty simple romantic philosophy. I've also not succeeded yet so yakno.
1. always say what you mean.
2. be patient and caring and all that.
3. keep in mind that your time is precious
Not that it's less so for men, but you guys get to fumble romantically without it super mattering for 20-30 years more than women (not socially, but medically)
1. always say what you mean.
2. be patient and caring and all that.
3. keep in mind that your time is precious
Not that it's less so for men, but you guys get to fumble romantically without it super mattering for 20-30 years more than women (not socially, but medically)