I didn't argue you can't, or that it's not good people can jump into your replies. It is often good. Unrelated replies just shouldn't be dumped into your DEFAULT timeline.
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@sun what's this about?
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@hj some psycho subposting me because I said it’s better if replies are not dumped in remote follow timelines
@sun@shitposter.world @hj@shigusegubu.club pretty sure misskey has a knob for that.