Egregoros

when a girl is socially oblivious and naïve to her detriment, she's ditzy.
when a girl is assertive or particular and enjoys schedules and logic, she's got moxie or is a control freak.
when a girl overthinks social situations or has generalized anxiety and worry to an extreme level, she's shy.
when a girl takes things too literally, she's a smartass.
when a girl has eccentric beliefs or interests and a strong moral compass, she's quirky and stubborn.

it's not even like any of these perceptions are terrible, it just goes to show that with a little inherent charm you can get away with being however you want. The eye contact thing makes people surprisingly upset, though.

@f0x I have opted to keep eye contact in a way that makes others uncomfortable and then they break it. Who's the autist now?