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Idk what to do boys. I bitch constantly about painting, but customers keep showing up, keep referring me, and keep giving me more work...

Internally I hate painting. But externally I focus on customers, do the stupid shit like clean up after myself, double check everything, am easy to work with, etc.

Like the townhome i'm doing. This lady called three other painters. Every single one of them bounced and just ghosted the client. Like it's so easy to not be a fuck up in this business and they just throw work at you.

But i hate it...


what do???


P.S I have no other opportunities to earn income and my tax obligations cost more than any w2 I qualify for (the last 10 years of my resume is being a contractor and the last 8 is running my own business, so any corporate job gets sus over that).

STOOPID

It's the stupidest fucking complaint. "Oh, my business works and people keep calling me" but idk, i just never wanted to do this as a career.

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@Tony hire someone worth a shit as asap as possible and take a step back to more of the admin, and fill in where you need two sets of hands or a personal touch
Good luck finding that person but yeah that would be my first priority
@subnetter The first business I started created a 40k tax obligation because I didn't know what 1099 vs w2 was.

I went deeply into debt for it. It's why i can't simply "get a job". In the context of running a business its manageable, but in the context of a w2 it'll take me 10 years to pay it off.
@coolboymew @rees Well, i hired the helpers last month, and we still hit profit even though it was like 4-6 hour days and I was meh about running them hard.

So if i tighten up the ship the business works.

But i'm on the fence because the next step is getting a work vehicle and once I do that I can't just decide in 6 months "fuck this" you know? because now I have a loan and like fixed costs that don't just go away...but yah thats where I'm at.

I get enough work right now to keep me occupied but next would be bring on a helper, train them slowly until we get overwhelmed, then a second, third, etc...
@pwm

Employees suck...

Nah, people aren't that bad. Part of the reason i've delayed is that once you bring on full time - you're responsible for their livelihood and you can't really wake up one day and be like "sorry bud, im tried of this, no more job" you know? you pay their bills so like you have to keep things moving.
@Tony @subnetter the market was oversaturated back when I was last looking for one and that was before gpt 3 came out and the models are only getting more powerful (imo amplifying the output of skilled programmers who leverage them but that's neither here nor there), further reducing the number of asses in seats you need, on top of the preexisting glut of cs grads with a few years' experience (hi mom).
I almost got back in ~a year ago but that didn't work out (my fault) and I may never be able to get back in except by extreme and unfair amounts of good luck because of what happened and my long period of being out of the game except as basically a hobby, which, while not worthless, doesn't look as good as if I spent the last half a decade plus bouncing around the startup scene.
I'm finally making enough to make a decent living despite all that but I'd rather go back if I could. I have spent too long on the outside looking in atp to not even blink at retarded work cultures and environments. Working on your ass instead of busting it is worth it (to a point anyway).
@pwm @subnetter I get that. Thats kinda where I am but contractor vs corporate world.

I had opportunities when I was right out of college to hop on the corporate 6 figure track pipeline but I blew it by fucking around and getting traffic tickets (i had like 3 outside sales job offers that paid like 70k back in 2014 but i couldn't take them because I had too many traffic tickets to drive the company cars) and then I went into contractor world and now, if i wanted to go back i'd have to start over...

But yah, i hear yah. There are so many things I wish career councilors would have told me when i was 18 that I found out when I was like 27...

Like if you "get in" don't fuck it up and be careful what you do for the first 5 years after college/highschool because you'll never get out.
@subnetter @pwm technically my painting business is AI powered...i used it to build the estimating/payroll tracking apps we use every day.

Soon it will also convert pictures to pdfs and send invoices.

** sounds of boomers getting excited **

But idk, i'm a results oriented person and I think most of the AI powered "powered" stuff is just gpt in a branded wrapper thats going to fail as soon as API costs rise.
@Tony @pwm software engineer, and no I would never work at a startup. I am not from the bay area nor would I want to live in that empty husk devoid of culture, not enough of a conformist to fit in with FAAGMAN, and I am not white or Asian (which is preferred there).

I'm good at other things but writing software doesn't come naturally to me. I script a lot more, personally.
@subnetter @pwm The most profitable thing i ever built with ai for the business has been the email bot. Goddamn little 40 lines of python generated over 350k in the last 3 years lol.

Just so happens the customers I work with (property managers) respond especially well to email, and I happened to get a giant list and build a bot that automated emailing them...
@subnetter @Tony Thank you. I will hopefully wind up on the ops/sysadmin side after all the time with my nose to the kubernetes grindstone in my home lab (and generic Linux admin before that). It's where I'm focusing my showcaseable work, anyway so that when the time comes I can show up and razzle dazzle em.
I probably won't wind up in pure swe, but admin who can program and use the agentic stuff they're pushing is not an unmarketable marriage of skills. And databases because I have turbo sql autism but that's a little rusty because I spend most of my time there uttering profanity related to stuffing unadulterated json into the pleroma database.
I just want a w2 with insurance idc if it's dull.
@pwm @subnetter

To my post earlier, they changed laws on this and are mandating all employers provide insurance, so hopefully this gets easier for you.

I'm trying to figure out insurance right now. Got real nervous when I sprayed myself in the face with paint today...

I had the "free" insurance the state offers but its free until you use it and then get a random bill in the mail...
@Tony @subnetter I am raw dogging the insurance thing until next open enrollment, when I'm able to buy into the one we have here. Idr if I wasn't eligible or dropped the ball on it last period.
I have a clinic I pay a membership to (their specialty is people w/ no insurance) and they are really great. Takes care of all my labs and regular visits etc. They're the ones that actually found the only thing wrong with me.
Just going to stay out of the hospital for now lol
@pwm @subnetter I signed up for my states free one last open enrollment, but read their fine print.

Basically im covered but if you use it they asses your income and send you a bill for what you "should have paid" which in health insurance terms is terrifying...

I just pay work comp, pay cash for eyes/dental and pray to god i don't snap a leg in half...