what are ways you ground yourself and become comfortable socially in large groups of strangers?
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Last time that happened was the first time I was at my church. Not a very normal examle, even now it's obvious that everyone there makes a very conscios effort to be social. Three seperate persons made a point to come and talk to me so I was spared the pressure od needing to intrusive myself. As I kept coming though I would inteoduce myself robmany persons after liturgy as we all ate. As I said everyone was making a point to be social so it's a aimple as sitting down in an empty seet and saying my name. Even the few times I have ended uo sitting alone someone else came uo to me. Everyone there obviously has an interest in Christianity so that's a free conversatiib topic, and that's basically the most practical advice I can give. Presumably if you're at a congregation you're there for the same reason as most everyone else, so ask them about whatever thing has brought you together to get the conversation started.
Last time that happened was the first time I was at my church. Not a very normal examle, even now it's obvious that everyone there makes a very conscios effort to be social. Three seperate persons made a point to come and talk to me so I was spared the pressure od needing to intrusive myself. As I kept coming though I would inteoduce myself robmany persons after liturgy as we all ate. As I said everyone was making a point to be social so it's a aimple as sitting down in an empty seet and saying my name. Even the few times I have ended uo sitting alone someone else came uo to me. Everyone there obviously has an interest in Christianity so that's a free conversatiib topic, and that's basically the most practical advice I can give. Presumably if you're at a congregation you're there for the same reason as most everyone else, so ask them about whatever thing has brought you together to get the conversation started.
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