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@mushroom_soup @histoire3 a 4'10 big titty shortstack who is sweet and loves my little pony is laying in my bed in my house right now wearing my $3 walmart tshirt and wishing I would come home so she could feed me cake and this retard you work with is slinging coffee for $12 an hour and you think her fuckin opinion should drive male choices.

Next you're going to say that she makes slightly more than $12 an hour because you don't actually want to engage the objectively correct part of my point
@sapphire @mushroom_soup @histoire3 honestly this is a new ish theme i’m seeing a lot. i honestly think a lot of these 30 year old women dont have husbands because they fell for that stupid “be a girl boss, an independent one” propaganda. almost all women see staying at home and not working to be a downside now. so now they’re all annoying fucks who think their shit dont stink. news flash, being a STAHM can be absolutely amazing when you find the right guy who wants to be a father and husband, rather than just want a wife and kids
honestly i kinda just went off on an off topic rant in this, but all of it is true and i’m actually so tired of seeing women who have already hit the wall talk
go get a husband
@mushroom_soup @Dudebro @petzoomer @sapphire i mean yeah, literally. there is no shortage of normal looking people. attractive, daresay. so your point is objectively false due to selection bias. how do you expect an engaged woman to gauge the dating market? 'Les you're telling us you're still searching, you haven't interacted with the dating market in earnest in alleged years.

It just seems to be a miscommunication or a general misalignment of love language. Women are so used to things being asked of them to appear prettier or be like that one actress, but guys are tired of makeup entirely and it's no longer effort *for them*, outside of a selected group, and a lot of them are asking you simply are active and take care of yourself. Basic grooming is the new makeup.

And let's say you have interacted with the dating market, I wanna see pictures of what you consider ugly, and why it matters if your man is conventionally attractive when you know there are specific chemical reactions that force you to bond with anyone so long as they're nice and such. It's a shallow thought.

There's also plenty evidence that, for men and women alike, there's not going to be "the perfect partner" in the wild. If all a given guy has to do is "put a little effort in" you pretty much have to start dating him first in order to nudge him to make some effort. Make him dinner for a few nights, maybe he'll even follow a skincare routine.
Noooo!! Lol... 2nd pic could be worked with if he got a haircut, but all of pic one is 🤮 And Pattinson was never my type, but guess he's looked better than that pic.

Women spend 47 min sprucing themselves because men are visual. We actually rate men on several complex things, like perceived power, wit, charm... Why women trying to date online is mostly disastrous.