Hypergamy's a bitch. At least she's being honest with him and not just gaslighting him until the relationship explodes the way most women do when they get the "ick."
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maybe she should ask her girlfriends...
Funny how much things would change if he fucked her girlfriends. She'd be right back in love (and jealous).
Its comical how they will say, Im not the jealous type. Then you start dating someone else and see the jelly monster come out of them.
My wife would try that on me while we were dating. Naming guys that she was going to "ask out"... at one point, she actually said "You don't get jealous, do you?"
I forget how I'd framed the convo, but it was something along the lines of; if she was going to cheat, I'd rather know about it openly, so I could end it. There's no point in getting jealous, as a woman is either a cheater, or she's not. Finding out yes or no is a positive either way, as I'd just walk away if she was looking at other men, and if she wasn't, then I'd know she was actually quality rather than just more gutter-trash.
Something like that.
She was always wound up and confused, when we were dating. I think she was accustomed to men chasing her (beautiful), and couldn't ever figure out why I'd never chase.
I have Le Chateau to thank for that. Never chase.
I forget how I'd framed the convo, but it was something along the lines of; if she was going to cheat, I'd rather know about it openly, so I could end it. There's no point in getting jealous, as a woman is either a cheater, or she's not. Finding out yes or no is a positive either way, as I'd just walk away if she was looking at other men, and if she wasn't, then I'd know she was actually quality rather than just more gutter-trash.
Something like that.
She was always wound up and confused, when we were dating. I think she was accustomed to men chasing her (beautiful), and couldn't ever figure out why I'd never chase.
I have Le Chateau to thank for that. Never chase.
I've dropped hints of preferences to wife's friends. A number of them actually showed up with the look I described, later. I pointed it our to the wife. She stopped the friend ship. if a new [friend] shows up in wife's circle... test her out. It will save your marriage. That new [friend] will talk shit about you.
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